red hot valentine's day sex

Sounds amazing,right? Chances are only half of married couples, if even that will be having sex on valentines day!

 Unless that is one of the four holidays a year that couples do it on

 {which is craziness}




Typical scenario:



Husband says: 

My wife is always too tired!

Wife says: 

I want my husband to appreciate me! 




Well husbands- your wife has been working/at home all day taking care of the kids, she has barely had a chance to pee by herself, she's been doing laundry and has a hot meal on the table for you {this is so not how I am... I need to work on cooking more} and you mosey in from work saying it was a long day, sit down to dinner, eat , then go watch tv or play video games while she's trying to eat dinner and clean up everything.

 No crap she's tired! she's had a long day too




How about you come home, greet her with a kiss 

{which you should everyday anyway}

ask her about her day 

sit down to dinner 

{with your cell turned off}

eat together, help with the dishes, 

and maybe offer to bathe the kids or put them to bed . 




Do you know how good that makes a woman feel, knowing that her husband is taking interest in her, working as a team to get things done around the house, and sharing responsibility of the kids 

{which I am all about... so is shawn, praise the Lord...

he does laundry, the dishes sometimes and puts both boys to bed every night} 

that makes us so happy and gives us time to decompress from the day so we have so extra energy... For you know what 

{wink}




women:

are you constantly nagging your husband? 

do you ever tell him you appreciate him working hard for your family?

does your husband come home to find you in sweats everyday ?

{i'll answer that question, yes! haha}

i'm sure our hubbies don't want to have sex with a crazy, nagging, unshowered wife everyday!




yes, a nice hot meal on the table makes him feel appreciated,

you taking pride in the way you look {at least some days} makes him happy to come home to you

those words of affirmation make him feel confident 




let's both husbands and wives {but more husbands...haha, just kidding}

work on showing love and appreciation more and get some sizzle back in the bedroom!

owww owww 




Have you heard the saying...

Happy wife, happy life. 

So true!




And this saying:

Men who do house work,

have sex more often.



That's true too! Haha




here's hoping you have some hot sex more than 4 times a year 

{cheers}